Make Him Wait For Sex – Avoid The Mistakes That 96% Of Women Make

Ok, so you are pondering the question of all questions: should you make him wait for sex? Are you concerned about what becoming physical too soon may do to your relationship? Do you want to make sure that he knows you really want him without sleeping with him too early? If you are curious about what you should do the answer which might surprise you. Keep reading

Here is the first thing to determine: Where do you want the relationship to go? If you are just looking to have some fun and move on soon than sure, go ahead and sleep with him. But thats not what you want is it? If you want to make a real connection with this man you really ought to wait to have sex with him. If you feel that you are trying to make him wait, you may want to reconsider the relationship.

However, at some point the question is going to come to this: How long should I wait to sleep with him. Well, there is no rule book which tells just how long you should make him wait for sex. It is more about understanding what your goal is in making him wait. Knowing this will make the timing questions much easier to answer. So what is the goal?

Bonding. Thats right; you want to make a connection. Men are much more at ease with sexual bonding than they are with making an emotional connection. This is one of those things which has been hard wired into them by popular though. That though is that it is more acceptable to connect with a woman by having sex than by being all emotional about it. But if you make him wait, he will realize the reward of emotional bonding and make it a priority.

Ask yourself this: Have we really established a connection which can provide a foundation for a good relationship? If not, it is not time yet. If this never happens than you have found out what you needed to know, move on. Trust your heart to tell you when the connection has happened. This will let you know when you have truly gone deeper than mere infatuation. If you make him wait for sex, you will find that you have gained something well worth waiting for and so will he.